Wedding Rings Lost Decades Ago Returned

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It’s not often that valuables are returned to their rightful owners or even found when lost, let alone a lost wedding ring!

A New Mexico couple got the shock of a lifetime when they got a call stating that the rings had been found- nearly 60 years later!

Lost Ring

It’s been decades since Ofelia Kirker lost her wedding rings, but she’ll be wearing the treasured jewelry for her 64th wedding anniversary.

“It feels like we’re getting married again,” said her 83-year-old husband Robert Kirker.

It’s “unbelievable to be wearing them again,” said Ofelia Kirker, 82. “They had been gone for so long. It’s wonderful to have them back.”

She believes the rings tumbled out of her pocket in the 1960s while she was living in the Grant County village of Santa Clara, reports the Las Cruces Sun-News (

They were unearthed in a yard there years ago and have finally made their way back to her thanks to an observant yard worker, one woman’s sharp memory and her daughter’s persistence.

Kirker had a habit of taking the matching white gold and diamond rings off and wrapping them in tissues while she cooked, placing the tissues in her pocket. “I said be more careful with your rings or you’ll lose them,” said her husband, Robert Kirker.

And then she lost them. She remembered having them in her pocket at church and suspected they had fallen near the home of Romana Gutierrez, where the couple always parked before celebrating Sunday Mass.

In a panic, Kirker went to Gutierrez’s house and began searching in the dirt.

“Mrs. Gutierrez came up to her and said, ‘What are you doing, Mrs. Kirker?'” Robert Kirker. “Ofelia told her that she lost her wedding rings, and Mrs. Gutierrez said, ‘Well, good luck. I hope you find them.’ ”

She never did, and she never replaced the rings.

Gutierrez’s daughter, Edna Salas, said the rings were unearthed years later when Gutierrez hired someone to clean her yard.

By that time, the Kirkers had left Santa Clara. Gutierrez didn’t know how to reach them, said Salas, so she put the jewelry in a small blue box.

Salas found that box in April.

“It puzzled me because I knew they weren’t my mom’s rings,” she said. “So I got on the phone, and I called my mom and asked her about the rings. She said those wedding rings belong to Ofelia Kirker.”

She passed the box on to the Kirkers’ daughter-in-law, who worked at a local grocery store. The bewildered daughter-in-law knew nothing about the rings and called the older couple.

“We were all surprised when we got the call,” Robert Kirker said. But he was skeptical that the rings were actually be theirs until the daughter-in-law described them.

The Kirkers had gone through some hard times after the rings were lost, including the loss of an infant child and the loss of a grand daughter and great-grandson in a car crash in 2012.

The couple made the trip to Santa Clara to claim their long-lost rings, and of course, to meet Edna. Romana, her mother, is naturally ecstatic that the rings finally found a way back to the Kirkers. And as for Ofelia? I suspect she will be A LOT more careful with those rings- and I don’t think she will be taking them off anytime soon.

Written by Katie McGuire. Follow Katie on Twitter @GOPKatie, On Facebook, or email the author at [email protected]

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